It is a sunny day, so I decided to do the bodywork away from the barn, closer to the arena.
Since we’ve been concentrating on the emotional, rather than the physical, Tweed has been relaxed from the start. He was no different today.
It is a sunny day, so I decided to do the bodywork away from the barn, closer to the arena.

I saw this today on FB from a trainer I follow. She summed up what I have been doing all week with Tumbleweed. I took a step back and concentrated on the emotional, rather than the physical.
It seemed to me a better use of my time to help him settle into a relaxed mind and energy, rather than having emotional conversations about leaving the herd.
For example, here he is upon leaving the herd. Head high, hyper-vigilant. My first trainer, the one who starts them, allows her horses to work it out standing tied waiting for their turn. They stand tied for a good part of the day and find relaxation on their own
That’s not really possible for me, so I use TTouch to get him there faster. A session takes around 45 minutes. I work on face, ears, mouth, neck, back, legs, and tail.
I continue to try bladder meridian, too, which has helped many of my other horses, but it doesn’t do much for Tweed. I’ve been able to get a couple of releases, and when I do, I stand back and let him have a moment. But he’s mostly kind of bored with it.
When he’s fully relaxed, we go exploring, walking wherever the wind blows us.
The bodywork has made all the difference in his herd bound stuff. It’s nonexistent when we take the time to connect, or as in Sacred Spaces, find “communion.”
I want him to know I have his best interest at heart. A good leader should inspire that level of trust. By listening to his energy, and addressing the underlying causes, I am saying, “you’re safe with me.” If we can come out of winter with just that, it will change everything about our partnership.
After Back to Work Day 7, where Tumbleweed was so chill after TTouch and basic bladder meridian releases, we hit day 8 and some real emotion about being away from the herd.
Susan Fay talks a lot about identifying your emotions during these moments, but I’m not sure what mine were. Is resolve an emotion? When I see his energy / emotion get up like that, I tend to push mine down and continue to direct his feet. I’ve seen this show enough to know how quickly they can change once they get their naughtiness out.
Soon enough, he’s tuned in and respectful, but as we did work closer up, I could feel his energy rising again when he looked over at his buddies gathered at the round bale. We had more work to do, and we did it.
Working at home has always been the hardest for us. My arena has a clear shot to the main turnout where he can see his buddies having fun and eating. On one hand, it is a worthy cause to push those herd bound buttons, as it will payoff on the trail someday. But on the other hand, it seems like 2 steps forward, 1 step back.
I did some research into TTouch versus Masterson Method and found out why TTouch might be better for us at this juncture for pre-arena work:
TTouch and the Masterson Method are both gentle, non-invasive equine therapies that improve horse wellness, but differ in focus: TTouch uses circular touches and groundwork to activate the nervous system and build body awareness, while the Masterson Method uses light-touch, interactive techniques to release tension in key joints.A friend of mine recently had to have her horse’s eye removed. It is an older, gentle mare, and she is doing well so far. The one-eyed horses I’ve known in the past compensated and went on to live normal lives, one, even as an active (and winning) 4-H game horse. That suggests, to me, that horses rely a lot on all their senses.
I recently read an article in the NY Times about evaluating your health based upon some tests you can do at home, Are You Aging Well? One of the tests is standing on one leg for ten seconds. It reminds me of a pose in my yoga routine, The Dancer. But they threw in a caveat: it’s even better if you can do it with your eyes closed. Yikes. I tried it, and began to fall over. Taking away my sense of sight threw everything off.
I was listening to the author of Sacred Spaces, Susan Fay, interviewed on the podcast, Mulemanship. (Here’s the link to the show on YouTube Mulemanship.) It is an excellent, and long, interview about her philosophy and book. GREAT conversation. In fact, one of the best horsey podcasts I’ve ever heard.
In it, and probably the book, too, she recommends closing your eyes to help feel your horse’s energy. Take one sense away so that your other’s are heightened.
I got to thinking about ways I could practice closing my eyes and trying to sense Tumbleweed’s energy, and a lightbulb went off—Masterson Method work and TTouch! (I should have done this on DAY ONE.)
If you listen to the podcast, they will briefly touch on these concepts which are mostly, but not all, from the book:
Communion
Congruency
Make-believe
Productive Contemplation
Energy (Alpha/Beta)
Visualization
Breathing
Everday is a new day
Do not focus on the past or even dwell on past stories
Positive aspects to fear: you do what it needs to take to overcome what you’re afraid of, both with your horse and yourself. Getting beyond your skill set, exceeding your skill set can cause you to step back. Fear can keep you alive and inspire you to do something about it.
They tried to deliver our second load of sand yesterday, but got stuck in the mud and couldn’t make it to the arena. (Cry cry cry). My arena is uneven now, and we have to wait until it freezes again to get a truck up there.