Preparation Payoff

A few years ago I began working with a trainer I love and respect, Regina. One of the preparatory things she had me do was to lunge Tweed and look for two things: his attention and if he was lifting up and carrying himself.  

It is the attention piece that saved me on Thursday’s trail ride. 

When I ask him to move out on the circle, if his attention shifts to anything other than me (watching his ears) I turn him to move the opposite way. When he is moving nicely, and maintaining his attention, I stop and ask him to face me. As he relaxes, I see if he can maintain that attention and keep looking to me for guidance. If he shifts his attention outside, I ask him to move again.  

When you’re out on the trail, and something unexpected happens, the hope is that they will stop and wait for your lead rather than instantly bolting. 

I went out on a 2 1/2 hour ride with an old friend whose horse is 28 now, but still able to do light trail work. Actually, he was remarkably sound for his age. 

He’s also steady Eddie and makes a fantastic trail partner for Tumbleweed. 

As we passed that section of the river (above) a dark set of clouds blew in and engulfed us. It brought wind and rain with it. The weather app hadn’t predicted it and it didn’t affect our house, only five miles away. It was just a freak occurrence. 

What’s even stranger is that it came over as we entered a dense grove of trees known to be a favorite resting place for deer. 

I’m always cautious riding the trail there, as it is a steep drop off to the river. There is another path around it, but I chose the narrow river path anyway. 

My friend’s horse was in the lead at that point. 

As we were about half way through we heard crashing through the trees to our left (cliff edge on right) and Tweed’s head went right up, body on full alert. (Flight mode). 

He thought about bolting, but the path was too narrow and he was behind my friend’s horse. If he had been in front, it may have actually been less claustrophobic for him and I would have moved him forward and out of the dense trees.

I stopped and surveyed, but could only see flashes of color here and there, running the opposite direction alongside us. 

I turned Tweed towards where they were exiting into the open, and one after another an herd of deer emerged and walked off. 

I then dismounted, my friend joined me, and we allowed Tweed to watch them for awhile and get to a place of relaxation. 

When he was relaxed, I remounted, asked to lead through, and finished the same section with no issues. 

That happened about 30 minutes into the ride, so we still had a lot of trails to cover and Tweed only got better and better until he was as relaxed as I’ve ever seen him. 

(Stopping to examine a ribbon. They were setting up a weekend trail horse competition.)

I was thankful for our preparation that taught him to stop and wait even when his instincts told him to bolt and runaway. 

With time, he will become used to these sudden surprises. In fact, I asked my friend if her 28 year old former ranch horse reacted at all and she said no. That’s pretty impressive! Hopefully, I can say the same long before 20 more years expire.

I follow a trainer at “Steady Horse” who takes this same ground preparation even further. Here is a link to one of his videos, but he has put out several. I’m going to add his tweeks to my own warmup. 

There is a difference, however, between ground and saddle. I was happy that Tweed waited when he really wanted to run away, but he got the most relaxation when he could actually see me on the ground next to him. The bolting energy disappeared when I stood by his side.

It is rare that I dismount nowadays, that’s the first time this year, and in a different situation, a different terrain, I probably wouldn’t have. But you only get a few seconds to choose your response and that seemed best for that moment. The way he rode out the rest of it seemed to justify that choice.

Little by little, trail mile by trail mile, we will merge the ground relationship into the saddle relationship more fully. But for that level of surprise, and not being able to see what was running through the trees (for Tweed it could have been a cougar for all he knew) I think he did spectacularly well.

I should add, we ended the ride by taking a downhill trail into the same area he spooked at the deer (we had come almost full circle) and he didn’t react at all or show any residual fear from before. 

Today our aunt arrives for her 90th birthday week celebration, and there won’t be another ride until Friday. Time to get cracking!

Happy June trails to you all!

Not One, But Two Per Week

Happy Friday! Yes, Friday, not Monday. After trying out the new once per week schedule of blogging, I found it lacking. I wanted to give Tweed’s journey time to breathe, but found there wasn’t much to report. He’s doing very well, making great progress, and hasn’t had another tummy ache. Managing his weight on pasture is probably the biggest issue right now, but that is a day-to-day assessment. 

I literally hand off the reins once per week to Katie after I ride T for the first hour and she spends her time on him leading Epona through the trails. Epona doesn’t like to lead, she prefers to follow, and she takes her cues from T. If he’s okay, she’s okay. Which leads Katie to think Epona needs some solo time in the future. As it is now, Katie rides Epona for the first 45 minutes, warming up, then grabs T and allows my daughter to take Epona for the trail ride portion.

I was bragging up Epona to a friend yesterday at the park, which I knew was inviting BAD KARMA, and sure enough it did. When I rode Tweed out of her sight she did some crow hopping and Katie had to ride it and then bring her back to work. She had not shown signs of buddy sour before that, but there it was.

My sights are shifting back to trail riding with friends, but the busyness of the last few years has left those relationships undernourished. 

It is a process finding trail riding buddies and learning to ride well with each other and still respect each other’s boundaries and unique journeys. 

Some of my old friends no longer have horses. Some are riding horses that are seniors now. And everyone’s lives seem very busy and complicated.

I have a ride planned for this afternoon with one of my oldies but goodies. She even accompanied me on a trip to Canada to visit Baby Tumbleweed. Her horse is in his 20’s now, but still able to do light trails. She lost her heart horse last fall to old age issues. 

As I reach out to former trail partners, I also hope to find new ones. That is my next “goal.” I see new people all the time at the equestrian area and I try to meet and introduce myself and my horses. So many nice people are in the horse world if you are willing to make those connections. I was hesitant to expand my circle before, but I think Tweed and I are ready now.

The weather has shifted here to summer. There’s nothing but blue skies and sun in our 10 day forecast. 

We will be entertaining a very special family member next week who is coming in to celebrate her 90th birthday with us. I take that honor quite seriously and will dedicate every second I can to making her trip extra special. 

After that, my riding schedule will open up quite a bit.

I had surprise guests in the pasture this morning. Such a beautiful sight.

Happy Friday trails, everyone!

Last Stars and Songs

My husband and I decided to say hi to the horses last night around 10:30, and on our way to the barn we saw a huge star. We weren’t sure if it was a satellite or something else, so we looked it up. Turns out, it was Jupiter and Venus lined up together. Very cool!

If the current trend continues, data center proliferation, they intend to also launch them into space—thousands of them hovering somewhere between sky and moon, further obliterating the starry nights. 

I’m so glad I grew up in a time where the stars were so bright, on some nights, it felt like you could reach out and touch them—just scoop them up in your arms. Those moments of being overwhelmed with the beauty, and mystery, of the universe—of our smallness—and yet, our spiritual, and similar, vastness. 

I mourn that loss for future HUMAN generations. 

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Sadly,  I only got one “ride day” this week. It was a Katie Day, and only involved Katie and my daughter riding Epona and Tweed. I volunteered to babysit Pilot because Epona is, currently, the main focus. 

The reason there was only one day is because I was car shopping (yuck!) and entertaining my sister and her family for our last Farm Chicks. 

Farm Chicks is where antique vendors from around the country come to Spokane and converge for two days of farm chicks style shopping. My daughters and my sister have joined me for many years and it has become our annual tradition. Very sad that this will be the last time. 

There seems to always be a non-chick accompanying us and, this year, it was my nephew. 

He is also learning to play the guitar and serenaded us with lovely country oldies throughout the weekend. 

Family, horses, traditions, music—these human things grow more and more important to me. 

As the world rushes frantically down a path that even its creators admit could destroy everything we hold dear, I am rushing equally frantically towards everything that makes us human.

Here is to another day, another week, to touch a flower, hold a grandbaby, (I happen to have a new one), human heart to human heart, to sing a song, to listen to someone else sing a song, and to walk under the stars, moon, and converging planets to the place where our horses nicker sweet hellos at 10:30 at night. 

Dancing In the Rain

Happy Monday, everyone. June has arrived! Where does the time go? Seems like it’s on warp speed.

It was a busy week that ended with my youngest brothers’s super fun wedding—lots of family, non-stop dancing and celebration.

But it started out with a drastic weather change. An absolute deluge of rain on our lesson day.

Normally, I’d take a pass, but we left it up to Katie, and she still wanted to meet. Rain doesn’t bother her, and since it shouldn’t bother us either, we are being trained to ‘Cowgirl Up!’

Here is a montage of that day if you’d like to get a feel for it. This was Wednesday.

On Thursday’s ride, non-ride, Tumbleweed threw a shoe. I hadn’t checked them before we left, and I have no idea where we lost it. No doubt, ‘rainy day’ ride contributed to softer feet and the lost shoe.

 

It was painful for me to watch him walk back. I’d have carried him if I could have. He was quite ouchy. He’s doing well at home now and the farrier has already replaced his shoe. 

After the wedding we entertained my aunt and uncle and cousin who had flown in for it. I put together a tea for them with soup, scones, cucumber sandwiches, chicken salad croissants and salted brownies. Oh, and I finally learned how to make a decent pot of tea after several tries. 

We were so full after devouring the homemade cream scones. I use all of my mom’s recipes and they are just so yummy. You can’t stop yourself. Unfortunately, I didn’t think to take a photo of the food, but trust me—it was amazing!

I had also made these Lemon Possets before they arrived, but we were too full to eat anymore and I forgot to bring them out. Oh well, I guess we will have to eat them tonight by ourselves, because, sadly, my guests are already gone. 

The older I get, the more I cherish every happy moment with friends, family, and my horses. 

The other night, we danced to every song the DJ played, young and old, and celebrated not only the marriage, but each other and that moment we could be together.

When life gives you the opportunity to dance, no matter what that ‘dance’ looks like, take it—even in the rain.

On a Horse I Love “Heaven, I’m In Heaven”

Being on horseback is my happy place, but more specifically, a horse I love. 

Not just any horse. Not just any ride. 

A ride where we look to each other for support. 

That’s my version of heaven.

Katie was gone last week, and it gave me the chance to take three rides on my own. Two solo, one with a friend. Each around 3 hours total. That was good for Tumbleweed and we made a lot of progress with exposure.

On one ride (it’s where we go under the arched tree and ride through fields of knee high green grass) my mind went to a lovely place. I was humming the soundtrack “Heaven, I’m in heaven, and my heart beats so that I can hardly speak. And I seem to find the happiness I seek…” My mind, my attention, went deep into some other sphere. 

A couple of birds flew up and Tweed spooked a da-dump, which instantly shook me out of my reverie. I laughed and reassured him that I was still there with him, but I wonder if he sensed that I was lost in thought, not really present and with him, and felt unsupported when the birds flew up. 

At any rate, his da-dump was very mild and did not at all spoil my mood. 

With Tumbleweed, on the trail is literally my happy place, my heaven, but I need to be more cautious about going too deep into it lest I be transported to the real heaven too soon. 

I’ll leave you with some photos from around our place. 

The barn planters. 

Spanish Lavender.  

The old rust bucket planter 

Roses

Peonies, that’s how you know it’s Memorial Day.

And one of the butterflies we raised with our grandson, Pilot. It’s our second batch of Painted Lady caterpillars. We successfully hatched four and released them to the world. 

They flew off to their own fate, like we all do.

Happy Memorial Day!