Saturday, November 2, 2019

Best Friend Bareback Pad Review


(Loping ahead of the ride, trying out the new Best Friend pad.)

As all of you know, I love to ride bareback.  Up until now, I've ridden bareback sans pad because I didn't yet know which one to buy that would meet my needs:

#1 The closest contact possible--ie. a thin sheet with a cinch and a little padding at the withers to protect the private parts in a fast stop.

#2 Something with storage possibilities for the trail.

#3 A pad that won't slip up and down hills & that keeps the rider's seat in place, too.


(Tacking up for the ride.)

When I was a kid, and the adults would only let us ride alone if we rode bareback, I felt very sorry for myself, and I thought the adults were jerks.  One day, out riding in the desert, my friends took off running back to the barn and my horse, not wanting to be left behind, followed them full-on Kentucky Derby run away. My flimsy pad "slid off", and I ended up on the ground, walking home alone. It made me hate bareback riding, and when I was finally old enough to have my own horses and saddles, I felt like I had hit payola.  No more falling off. I had a horn to hold onto and stirrups to balance myself with--yeehaw!

But a few years back, in winter, I was very cold, and putting a saddle on my horses for a short ride just seemed silly.  So, I didn't.  I went bareback and started to love it. Not only was it super warm, but I could feel the muscles in their backs--which gave me extra information and better communication.  I could feel the tensing up, the release, and the heart beating super fast (fear) or slow and steady (relaxed).  And I started to use that information to get past some big road blocks with Leah.

I'm a better rider than I was as an 11 year old.  I have better trained horses who know me, rather than my friend's super spoiled ones. A better, more balanced, seat means the pad doesn't slip.  I always blamed the pad, but in reality, I think I must have slipped off the horse and made the pad shift.

I've done a lot of research on bareback since then, and read the pros and cons, but I feel comfortable riding my horses bareback for short rides here and there.  My horses seem to love it.  There is definitely a feeling of oneness when riding bareback.  Not only can you feel their every breath, but you're also a bit more vulnerable.  You can't just ignore them and become a passive passenger.  You really have to be thinking about them and actively riding with them.  You must always pay attention to where you're placing your weight--if you don't, you get instant feedback.

I've ridden sans pad now for years, but getting off my horses and having dirty, sweaty butts of my jeans wasn't working too well.  I needed to find a pad that imitated riding with nothing.

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I want to introduce you the pad I purchased after reading many, many reviews and talking to many different equestrians who already own one--The Best Friend Bareback Pad.


(My friend is trying it out here on Cowboy.  She ordered one yesterday.)

And here is a video of the first look.



My thoughts:

The #1 thing I wanted out of this pad was for it to be thin enough that I could feel the heat from my horse, the heartbeat, and the movement of the muscles.  As I said before, I would be happy with something as thin as a sheet for that part.  This isn't as thin as a sheet, and it probably can't ever be, if you want to keep the sweat from saturating your pants.  We did a two hour ride in 50 degree weather and the seat of my pants was a little damp--so there is some sweat through--not much though.  It definitely kept my pants clean.  Bottom line: I could feel his heat, his  heartbeat, and his muscle movements very well.

The wither padding is excellent, and if you're a bareback rider, you will appreciate that. It also has a suede type top that keeps you from sliding around. It comes with an adjustable cinch with rollers--which I love. It has pockets and D rings so you can take what you need on the trail. I didn't experience any slippage, and we went up and down pretty steep hills and trotted and loped.

I could have ridden in it much longer than two hours.  I felt great when I was done.  Cowboy seemed to love it, too.  It probably gave him a little protection from my seat.  He  moved so freely and had such energy.  He even gave a little buck of happiness when we first started loping in the arena.  (It was Day 3 of his Equioxx treatment, and he was like his old, younger self.)

I like it so much that I just purchased a second to have when guests want to ride bareback with me.  I bought the blue version.

Here are some more photos from Amazon.










Note: I am not being paid for this review, and I did not receive this product from the company, I paid cold, hard cash! However, if the company reads this and wants to send me another one...I would be very appreciative! (just kidding. not kidding.)

11 comments:

  1. This is cool. I’ve always wanted to try one but have been a chicken

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    1. That’s very understandable. My friend, Rebecca, is working with students this month and next to ease them into bareback. This month, their homework is just to start dropping the stirrups. Little steps, but it’s worth the journey to get there. I think you’ll actually be surprised. I bet Carmen will love it.

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  2. Sure beats trying to find a saddle that fits! But if I want to continue cattle sorting I do need a saddle. I did consider trying it bareback (until I came to my senses...)

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    1. That would be funny—sorting cattle bareback!

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  3. Looks like a perfect fit for you and what you want. I've never ridden bareback. I rode a lot of challenging horses over the years and truthfully would never trust myself without a saddle. And now...well I'm too old and chicken to give it a try. You really can't teach an old dog new tricks!

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    1. Ha! You’re funny, but yes, it’s not for everyone, and that’s okay. For those wanting to give it a try, there are ways to ease into it. An old, steady horse like Cowboy for starters. He makes it so easy and safe. After what happened to me with Beautiful, I almost feel more safe out of the saddle...almost, not quite though. It was just more difficult to get off her back. But there is always a balance issue bareback, and less equipment to steady yourself. I use the mane. I do not trust those little handles on the pads. I tried that when I was 11, and it didn’t work out for me. Cowboy has a solid mane. My friend’s horse does not. Now, she’s, I think, late 60’s (she won’t tell us her age) and she ordered the same pad. She’s the one trying it out in the photo. So I’m going to take her out on light bareback trail ride when she gets it. Fingers crossed! But her thin maned boy is pretty rock solid.

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  4. Hi there- what a great review! Would it be ok if we shared this review on the Horse Tack Co. FB Page?

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    1. Yes, you can share this. Since this review, I have used the pad on many trail rides. My horse loves it. There will probably be people who don’t agree with bareback riding, but I have seen a happier, more energetic horse. I love this pad more every time I use it.

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  5. I bought this pad as I couldn't find a saddle that fit my mare right. We've been bareback for the last 3 years besides color fading from many trips swimming in the lake and lots of sunny rides its still in really great shape!!! Its been on countless rough trail rides and many bucking fits, this pad has won my loyalty.

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  6. I bought this pad as I couldn't find a saddle that fit my mare right. We've been bareback for the last 3 years besides color fading from many trips swimming in the lake and lots of sunny rides its still in really great shape!!! Its been on countless rough trail rides and many bucking fits, this pad has won my loyalty.

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    1. That’s great! I wrote this awhile ago, and I love my 2 bareback pad more than ever!! My granddaughters all love them, too. They’ve become much, much better riders from riding bareback. Such oneness. I plan to order a third because everyone wants to use them at the same time. The horses love them, too. They just seem much happier and tuned into their riders.

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