Tuesday, August 15, 2017

Sharing Our Love

One of the greatest pleasures in life is sharing our love of something with someone we love.  When you see the thing that gives you so much joy, give them joy, too, it's an incredible high.

Our granddaughter came to visit from Norway with her dad.  She's nine and loves the horses.  Her parents do their best to give her horse training--signing her up for camps whenever they can, but she was really looking forward to some nuts and bolts horse time here. We rented a cabin and had a family reunion with all the kids and grandkids on my husband's side during the weekend, so we didn't get time to really play with the horses until yesterday.

She was soaking it all up.

First, I ponied her around on a short rein, but as she demonstrated an ability to whoa her, back her up, and turn her around, I lengthened the rope and let her take the lead off and on.

When you turn around and see this...

You know your little cowgirl has a HEART for the horses!

Her dad was in a hurry to get on the road, so he drove the packed car out to the barn to get her.  Before she got in, however, she gave me a hug and told me she kissed it goodbye.  I asked her what it was, and she pointed to my Cowgirl Cave.  I said, Whoa, we've got to get your picture in the Cowgirl Cave before you leave!  And, she was so happy and insistent that it be taken on her dad's camera so she could have it right away.  His didn't work, so I took it with my mine after all--

Someone found their happy place.

And, speaking of my little cowgirl granddaughters.  I have two that haven't been here in a while, but were up at the cabin with us.  You remember Sophie--the one who usually rides Penny and does the clinics with me--and her sister Cat--who rides Little Joe.

They got to ride a different kind of horse with me--Seahorse One--my water ride.

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Thursday, August 10, 2017

A Few Photos From August

Hi everyone.  I'm in the middle of a family vacation and will be gone until Sunday, but I wanted to share a couple of photos from this week with the horses and wish you all well!  As you can see in the pictures, we are surrounded by smoke here in Spokane.

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Thursday, August 3, 2017

I Want Them to Think They Own the World

My trainer, Rebecca, shares inspiring tidbits on her Facebook page, but this one really hit me. When I'm with my horse, we're a team and, at its very best, I should project a rock-star attitude about my horse.

Basically, When we're together Leah, Beautiful Girl, Cowboy, Joey, we're going to kick ass and take names!  We're going to chew these hills up and spit them out. We're going to rock these streams and rivers like a hurricane!

These are the basics:

1) believe in them and have high expectations for them.
2) build confidence in small increments of success ALWAYS setting up situations where they will win!
3) focus on them every time we ride and not on the other horses, people or myself.  This helps reinforce that we're together, partners, and a team. Everyone else, every other horse, is incidental to our partnership.
4) project confidence in myself, too. If my horse is going to be a rock-star, his/her rider should be one.
5) praise my horse to high heaven for their little, and big, successes.

Beautiful had her 4th ride last night.

She was ridden in a halter and lead rope only. Wow!

She learned to pony behind a new horse in preparation for her first trail ride--where she will first be ponied carrying a saddle, but not rider.

I rode Little Joe who is just recovering from a hoof abscess and is ready for some trail miles.

He was a bit resistant to yielding. But with consistency and firmness, it came back to him. We worked on neck reining, stopping, side passing and backing up.

Here's the full post Rebecca had shared from Denny Emerson. I believe their pages are both public.

When the horses were done, I opened the North pasture gate to let them out for the night, but Beautiful stayed back from the herd and came to see me.  I could see that she was happy and proud of herself and wanting to be reassured.  I thought of Rebecca's post and I dug into every ounce of proud I had in me and tried to demonstrate that to her.  I think she got it.

Tuesday, August 1, 2017

Transition: Changing the Energy


Sometimes, I remind myself that when I take a horse from the herd, I'm changing its whole energy.

 I'm asking her to shift gears from a grazing, resting being, to a moving, working one.

Sometimes, in those moments of awareness, I stop what I'm doing and let her rest while she transitions her mind.

I was having an issue with mounting for rides.  Leah was starting to take off as soon as I got in the saddle. She had been doing it for the last few weeks, as if she anticipated the drastic change and was all hyped up for it.

Yesterday, I let her rest and gave her time to change her energy.  She liked it.  She rested.  When I asked her to move out, she moved out gently.

When I mounted at the trail head today, Leah stood as still as she did when I had let her rest.  We stood for a little bit, until she was ready to make the shift.  And, we had a great ride.  She spooked to the side once--at a log.  She took up the rear through the creek--not sure why--but she wanted to follow, rather than lead, but she went through like a champ when it was her time. She also did great down some extremely steep, loose basalt terrain that many horses struggle with.  It was so steep in parts that I was leaned back almost to her butt--Man From Snowy River style.

There is something to be said for respecting the transition.  What is that saying about how the way a process starts out determines how the whole thing will go?

Something else I did yesterday--visualization exercises.  I envisioned what we would look like 4 panels ahead, and I tried to think positive.  It helped tremendously!  My hope is to train myself to do that ALL the time.  I tried here and there on the trail today, but I sometimes slipped into negative visualization. I kept thinking Leah was going to trip down that really steep part.

New habits take time to develop.

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Sunday, July 30, 2017

Should I Shampoo My Horses?

For those who follow my blog, you know by now that I am what you call a minimalist.  Why?  Because I can be.  I don't show. I don't compete.  I ride the trails.  My horses train mostly at home, with me, so they're rarely exposed to large groups of new horses.  I try to keep down their stress levels which, I believe, is the #1 contributor to illness and injury.  I've examined every area of care and stripped it down to the essentials--smart worming cycles, rotation of pastures, the best farrier care, smart immunization cycle (not overdoing it), the best hay, and constant exposure to a stable, safe herd.  I want my horses to have fun and take pride in what they do at all times.

However, there was one area I hadn't really thought through, but I did today as I was giving Beautiful Girl her bath, and that is washing my horses with shampoo.

You see, at the start, as I was showering her back and hind end with water, it was beading wonderfully over her top line, keeping her from getting saturated.  As a recent Curly Girl minimalist convert, I've been thinking a lot about hair and the natural oils on our scalp, and I knew to recognize a good thing when I saw it.  Still, it didn't stop me from lathering her up with shampoo and washing all those great oils off.  By the time I was done, she was squeaky clean, smelling of roses, and entirely ready to go roll in the dirt again.

Since leaving the barn, I've been researching and thinking about it, and I've come to realize, I may skip the shampoo in the future.  I could have accomplished everything I wanted with water alone and a little scrubbing.  I mean, I don't think it's going to hurt her, but maybe there are protective qualities to those oils.

Horses in the wild do just fine with out shampoo.

My family came across what appeared to be a herd of wild horses last week at Lake Roosevelt and my sister took these pictures.  They were getting a reprieve from the hot temps in the cool of the water.  There's no doubt, horses like water and appreciate a cool soak--but water isn't as harsh as the chemicals in shampoo and, I imagine, it mostly leaves those oils in tact.

What are your thoughts on shampooing horses?

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Friday, July 28, 2017

A Horse to Heal a Heart

I had a guest and horse helper for the last few days, my nine year old grand-niece.

She washed Lily, the pony. She helped me trim her bridle path.  She led her through the obstacles in my arena.

My grand-niece lost her mom last year about this time, and as you can imagine, it has been a painful journey for her. But she loves the horses.  Horses heal hearts.

In fact, I know a horse who lost his mom, too.

Cowboy hasn't ever been a kid's horse or, for that matter, given kids rides at all.  When I first put her on his back, he looked unsure.

But after some wither scratches and rubs along his mane, he was melting in her hands.

He even allowed her to lead him through the obstacles.

I was proud of Cowboy.

My grand-niece now lives with my sister and her husband--her grandparents--and we plan to get her up here to the horses as much as possible.

There is a non-profit center in her town that helps children who are grieving.  It's called the Willow Center.

They meet every week and then have an annual summer camp for the kids.

There is currently an internet competition going on for a charity to receive a $5,000 donation and the Willow Center is vying for 1st place with three others.  Please click on this link-- Willow Center for Grieving Children --and click a vote for Willow Springs.  They don't ask for any information and you can vote from anywhere.  You can also vote every day!  If you can take a second and help them out, I thank you!  My grand-niece, and many more children who have lost moms, dads, sisters and brothers, are being helped tremendously. 

And, a little horse time doesn't hurt either!

Monday, July 24, 2017

Bossy Mares and Bossy Cowgirls

Woohoo--crazy, curly hair, sans hat!  Now, you know what I mean when I say it's wild.  In defense of the hair, the wind was blowing from the back--so, under normal circumstances, it isn't quite that Va-Va-VOOM. It's just voom. or vava.

I have gone full curly though--bangs and all. I don't brush or comb. I don't shampoo.  I only condition and comb it with my fingers. I use a special towel to dry it, one that doesn't take out all the moisture--t-shirt  material.  I use a diffuser that only gets the roots and not the "canopy".  I refresh it each day with a water spray infused with 3 drops of Rosemary essential oil.  And, I use a non-drying gel and curl cream.  I NEVER straighten, because curls have "memory" and the more you let it go curly, the more they remember their shape.

Enough on hair--let's talk horses.  It's hot, and it's hard to ride.  We spend 3/4's of our time now on the water. I'm lucky to get any riding in at all.

I did manage to squeeze in the above ride last Friday. It was a day with my daughter and her husband.  He's somewhat of a newbie to horses, and Shiloh and I know EVERYTHING, so the poor guy gets both ears full.

Colton, sit forward up hills.  
Colton, sit back down hills.  
Colton, put your heels down.  
Colton, let your hips move with the horse's rhythm. 
Colton, slow down around corners while hauling.

Poor guy!  We're ramming a lifetime with horses into a day ride, but he's learning fast and doing great and we should soon be able to just ZiP IT and leave the poor guy alone!

He's a natural.  He's the guy with a HEART for the horse.  He didn't come to it looking at them as tools, but as companions and partners.  I'd say he's 90 percent further than most.  And, he's more than  willing to take correction--he just prefers it be delivered with kindness.  (Hint, hint. Now, we know why our mare herd is so bossy!  They get it from  us.)

The grass is finally starting to dry up, and I'm able to leave the horses out grazing all day without much fear of founder.  They're much happier.  And, my life is easier only having to bring them back in at sundown.

Thursday, July 20, 2017

My Horse Has Changed, And That's A Good Thing, I Think

With good health, and training, my horse is getting a bit of an attitude.

A couple days ago, I was putting Cowboy away, and I spotted Leah, from the periphery,  moving at a brisk pace to enter his stall before I closed the gate.  Leah knows that when I bring them in, she gets to escape the mare herd (the mean girls) and get her supplements, so she's always eager to return to her stall, but she is usually easy to push away.  I put my arm in her path to redirect her--ask her to wait her turn and....

I got it ripped off.

She committed.

She dove in with all 1,200 pounds of her body.

The devil himself wasn't going to stop her.

It was one of those moments when you look at your arm--banged up, maybe broken, skin ripped off the elbow, as you realize your leg  hurts, too--and think--that was dumb.  REALLY dumb.  And, then you wonder why, why would you have decided to put your arm and leg in between an open stall (food) and a 1,200 pound animal.  It happened so fast, I could only go with my instincts and experience.  BUT one variable was off--experience.

Leah had changed.

My arm wasn't broken, though it is still sore and scraped.  I don't even remember how it got scraped or what it got scraped on--it happened in such a flash.

That night, I took Leah for a ride to the neighbor's barn.  Her different, "Girl Power!," attitude showed in everything we did.  First, she didn't let me mount, or more accurately, she started to take off as I threw my leg over.  We were in the neighbor's pasture when she was doing that, and she could see the other members of her herd grazing, so she was definitely mad that she wasn't with them and was acting out quite purposely.  I mounted and dismounted over and over and over, until she got it right.  The ride went well, and we headed home.  Once again, she saw the herd grazing--and she tried to break away.  I circled her back.  Turned for home, she tried bolting away.  Circled her back, and so on.

When we arrived at the barn, I figured that was a good time to work her in the arena--so she doesn't get the idea that coming home and eating is always the end game.  My husband had ran the tractor into my arena gate a couple weeks before, and it wouldn't shut without great effort, so I left it open and figured I'd test her and see if she bolted to it.  I figured she would give me enough of a warning that I could adjust and redirect her away, should she decide to break for the opening.

She did break for the open gate--and I did NOT have any warning when she decided to go.  So, we went through the gate and I got her into a circle and back into the arena--where I dismounted and CLOSED the gate.

All this is to say, my sweet Leah has changed--and that's a good thing.  She is no longer anywhere near obese.  In fact, you can see her ribs--a thing I never, ever imagined I'd let happen to one of my horses.  Now, after her obesity founder, a little rib has become quite a wonderful look to me.  And, it has made a world of difference to her.  Her new weight is changing her body, and her new body is changing her athleticism, and the athleticism is changing her sense of herself and what she can do.

Remember Little Joe, the horse my friend gave me.  He foundered last year, too--at her house. He recovered sometime during the year, but right after I got him, in spring, he developed an abscess. (I suspect it was the way he was trimmed.  Her farrier had left a lot of sole on the foot, probably as a protective measure, and my farrier took it out to return the foot to normal--but that transition may have caused the abscess.)  I poulticed and soaked it--got it to drain a little, but it would come back in the same place--or never fully go away. Eventually, I stopped soaking it, and decided to let time do it's thing while I continued him on a restricted diet with supplements.

Well, his abscess seems to have finally fully broke and he, too, is feeling good and staying thin.  Unfortunately, he is proud cut, and I have to constantly remove him from the mare herd, but he is a well trained little guy and will be a lot of fun to ride.  I'm going to saddle him up this morning and see what he can do.

Tonight will be Beautiful Girl's 3rd lesson/ride.

Wednesday, July 12, 2017

Anxiety Free Riding: A Tale of Two Horses

Yesterday, as I was saddling my horses, I started to think that anxiety is a little different than fear.  Anxiety can be this nagging--something's wrong, but I don't know what--kind of feeling.  Fear seems more focused on an actual thing to be feared.  And, it struck me, all of my horse training has gravitated to an overwhelming desire that my horses be as anxiety-free as possible.  I even prefer acute fear to smoldering anxiety.  You can get past a fear, but anxiety cuts paths through the brain that are hard to fill back up.

Because of that, some horses will only get so far beyond anxiety, and that's okay.  

Cowboy is a phenomenal trail horse, but he's insecure around large groups of horses.  I've decided he doesn't need to be around large groups of horses.  He's 22, and I'm not changing his basic personality.  He had a ton of training when he was young, but something didn't go right.  Maybe it's because he's an orphan foal.  Not sure.  But, in any case, he can be an anxious horse.  I love Cowboy deeply, and we have had a wonderful journey together--despite his anxiety.  Who knows, maybe I love him more for it.  I know how hard he has to work to get past it.

I want all my horses to get as far as they can get, but not to push them over that fine line of too much.  
It's hard.

In my desire to keep Beautiful Girl anxiety-free, I know I didn't take her far enough, but I'm making up for it now with the help of a trainer I trust.  It took me a long time to find that trainer.  On the bright side, Beautiful has had all good experiences and is full of trust.  Leah got a late start, too, probably for the same reason, but she is also full of trust.

Yesterday, I rode Cowboy and Leah to the next door barn.  Our neighbors baled hay on our fields, so we cut the fences in between our properties.  Generally speaking, I prefer to ride away from home--more trails and less barn sour.  Since I'd never ridden Leah from home, I didn't know what to expect.

She was rock solid.  She alerted a few times, like in the picture at the top, but it was normal new place, new thing stuff.

Cowboy, on the other hand, took a lot of reassuring, so we did things he likes to do--run, play, and eat. When we got to the neighbor's barn, he was worried about the other horses, so I dismounted and walked him through the grounds. 

That is a big change for me.

My thinking used to be--push them through their fears.  Now, I sometimes just get off.  I don't care.  It's easy to get back on.  I wish I'd done that with Cowboy years ago, but ah, well, I did my best with what I had at the time.  And, sometimes, your best bet is to stay in the saddle.  

Today, we'll do the same thing as yesterday.  Positive repetition is the cure for anxiety.

The jumping class was fun. Leah will never be a good jumper, but she was a trooper.  I took the class because I wanted her to work on foot placement and my own seat to help her get that proper placement. At one point, she tried to put her foot between the jump poles and knocked them off their post.  Rebecca told me to praise the heck out of her.  I did.  She said the last thing you want to do is make her think she did something wrong and develop anxiety about the jump.  We circled back around and she walked over the poles perfectly, without a nick--and without anxiety.

Rebecca promotes a "THIS IS FUN!" mentality in her students--and she wants us to do the same for our horses.  "So, you knocked down a pole...so what!?!  Poles can be picked back up.  Thank you for trying so hard.  Good girl.  I love you!"

Tonight, we have our bi-weekly trail clinic.  I'm going to ride Leah to the clinic from home.  Yay!  And, since she will have already done it twice--she'll be anxiety-free.  I'd call that perfect.

The jump.

Monday, July 10, 2017

A Second Ride on Beautiful, A Water Adventure, AND a New Car

I had a whirlwind weekend that started on Thursday and ended Sunday.

To start, my husband and I took our Waverunners up to Kettle Falls.  We rode them up the Columbia River (Lake Roosevelt / Columbia) to the Canadian border.

On the way, we saw a sign for a winery.

Would you like some wine?  Yes, we'd love some wine!

We pulled the Waverunners onto the shore and tied them off.

We hiked up the hill my husband is walking back down in this photo.

We walked through a gate that warned of "electricity".

At that point, I was a little nervous wondering if it was going to be a scene from Deliverance.  I mean, there's nothing in this photo that says "lovely winery in 1000 feet."

But we followed the path and came across the vineyard.

And soon, we found our Shangri-la.  (And, like the people of Shangri-la, the winemaker said he was 75, but wouldn't have passed for a day over 60.  He looked like a thin, healthy hippie with longish, blondish, grayish hair, and wearing a Hawaiian shirt that was open in front.  His picture is on one of the labels.)

Here is the label:

The China Bend Wine Tasting Room that he and his wife built 35 years ago.  It's called China Bend, because the bend in the Columbia River, at that point, is the same name.  Also, I heard they are selling the whole operation if you'd like to move to paradise.

Like a scene from Hansel and Gretel except, instead of candy and gingerbread,this house was resplendent of vino.

We came. We tasted. We bought. We hiked back to the runners.

(The B&B addition-click on the link for more information.)

Back down at the water, I took photos of the flowers that were growing underneath--at my feet.  It was like a huge, magical aquatic flower garden. Here is a small portion.

My husband decided to jump in and partake of that magic before we pulled out.

We were off again.  Here are some more photos.  I think they call these types of pictures nature porn.  Bahaha!  Whatever works.  It was all breathtaking.

We stayed at a B & B in Kettle Falls that night, and I drank too much Scotch.  I paid for it the next day when we spent the morning and early afternoon back out on the water.  You could say, I was happy to get back to land and start heading home.

Here, I will divert to explain a bit about what led up to what happened next: A couple weeks ago, one of our cars went on the blink. We are not car people.  We just want vehicles that safely get us to point A and point B.  We buy cars, take good care of them, and keep them.  Because of that, we have /had no car payments.  But my husband called me that day and said--It's time to buy a car!

I couldn't get into buying a car because that's a big chunk of money I'd rather spend on travel or horses or family get-togethers.  But I figured, if it was true we needed one (and we did) then the car should, at the very least, offer an adventure.

Back in 1990, I had a vehicle like that--a Toyota 4Runner.  I decided I'd buy another. The problem was, the 4Runners of today--at least, on the lot that I went to--were all fancy, city cars--and I wanted something more rugged.  I didn't know that Toyota had a special 4Runner--a rugged, tough, tank of a thing that just screams--let's go down that dirt road!  Until....

Driving home from Kettle Falls, in the teeny town of Colville, WA, I saw it.  The only car that made buying a car seem like a good thing.  The Toyota 4Runner TRD PRO with special shocks and tires and struts and metal skid plates and wire harnesses and coated bottom and all kinds of fancy gears to get you out of mud and snow.  The perfect car for Spokane--whose streets are paved with potholes.

And, I bought it!  Not that day, of course.  I was too hungover and seasick to stop and buy a car, but the next morning, as soon as they opened their doors.

And, we were off to the races.  A Runner pulling a Runner.

On Sunday, Rebecca got a second ride in with Beautiful.  She did great.  Here we are waiting for Rebecca.

There was an obstacle of tires I've written about before.  Rebecca tried to ride her over those tires, but Beautiful very politely took her front right hoof and drug the tire toward her--then walked through.  Rebecca tried it again from the other side and Beautiful did the same thing from the other side.  The tire even got stuck on her front hoof, but BG kept her cool and pulled it back step by step until it came free.  I'm thinking she may be pretty smart.  Just a guess.

Tonight, I'm taking Leah to jumping class next door.  Rebecca swears they are teeny jumps!

A little history:

This is the last picture I have of my old 1990 4Runner.  A certain person who will remain nameless (my oldest son) had it stuck in mud. I gave it to him when he turned 16 (he was born the same year as the 4Runner) and he sold it about 2 years ago--still running!!  I owe that car a  lot for keeping that boy alive.  And the many, many good memories I had in it.