Tuesday, September 30, 2025
The Hardest Parts
Thursday, September 25, 2025
The Holes Can Hurt You
As I was working with Tweed, the last post synthesized into the title of this one: the holes can hurt you.
We don’t know where the holes are until we are put to the test, but when they are revealed (and they will be), it’s our responsibility to address them. For Tweed and me, it boils down to fitness (body confidence and awareness), exposure (wet blankets), and the Respect which leads to Trust.
It isn’t good enough to have 80-90% because that hole, the 10-20% can ruin a ride for both of you.
So, I started to look at everything with a critical eye: where are the holes and how do I fill them?
If he comes off the trailer looky loo, I give him a job.
If I go to throw the saddle up and he takes a couples steps to the side, I stop and bring him back.
Tuesday, September 23, 2025
I Want It All
I’m upping my game. I have to. The trail work requires more of Tumbleweed, and even me. Its like we were playing, but now we’re training. Don’t get me wrong. It’s still fun, but it’s also more methodical.
So, this is how it’s going down:
1. He got too fat on pasture. He’s on a diet.
2. When he does a trail ride longer than two hours, he gets the next day off to rest.
3. On days we aren’t riding trails, and he isn’t resting, we are doing pole work and riding for strength through collection and lots of transitions, either here at home, or the park.
4. Before each ride (or after) we’re doing Masterson Method work and side tail pulls.
5. When we start our work, or go somewhere and unload, if he starts to look around and lose relaxation, he immediately gets a job. At no point now is he allowed to “takeover.” I have started following that like religion this week. Even if he steps to the side while I’m saddling, I stop and bring him back to where I set him. I found that I was giving him too much freedom and he was taking that as a lack of leadership. He has one job: do what I ask.
6. Lots of hill work, in hand and in saddle. If he acts up on a hill, we repeat the hill until he goes down with collection.
7. Introducing new gaits on the trail so he doesn’t think we’re running for our lives when he gets asked to trot or lope.
8. Daily supplements with the addition of Cosequin ASU.
9. Solo trail rides between rides with partners.
This has been the first week of the new prescription, and in some ways, he is already improving, though he isn’t too sure about some of it yet because it’s not his normal routine. He got worked up about the gait changes on the trail and he doesn’t like turning around and doing hills again. He doesn’t particularly like solo rides now either, but they’re good for his confidence.
I thought all these things through carefully with an emphasis on his fitness and ability to use his WHOLE body. Trail rides require everything from us and it’s not fair to him to be unconditioned. At the same time, it is trail rides that provide the most conditioning, but since we can’t get out every day, he has to work on fitness in between.
It has made me look forward to winter with dread because I do not want to take that time off. We’re going so good right now and I want it to continue, not have to start again.
Thursday, September 18, 2025
Getting to Happiness
Today started out with a lesson, and Regina had us work on getting Tweed’s attention fully on an obstacle before beginning it. The goal is to get him to pay attention to his feet up and downhills. She said he has a tendency to look past obstacles. At the top of a hill, he’s looking 20 feet past the bottom. At the bridge, he’s looking 10 feet past it. Etc.
It was excellent work for Tumbleweed and paid off on the trails. I collected him before each hill, then released him and let him make his way. He was much more careful picking his way up and down.
The dynamics with the new horse were different than Tuesday. The companion was a seasoned gelding who has done lots pack trips. Tweed wanted to be right on his butt, and he didn’t mind. We forced Tweed to lead off and on, but Tweed preferred to follow him. (That was an unusual behavior for him.)
So, while Tweed did much better this ride, we didn’t have the same connection we did Tuesday. He wanted to be more connected with Gunner, the golden old boy. I think Tweed would have even liked to join his herd and go home with him. Lol.
It was a 3 hour day for Tweed, and the boy was just so tired!
Is this fun yet, Tweed? It is for me, but I’m not sure you’re loving it.
I have to say, when I groomed him to prepare for the lesson and ride, my whole body and spirit were filled with happy endorphins. He has become my happy place, and I hope he will grow to love our rides as much as I do.
He seems to want to, and probably will, when they’re easier for him.