Friday, September 24, 2021

No More BS

Have you ever experienced a moment with your horse where, if they could talk, you're pretty sure they'd say, This is bullshit? I had one of those today.

The beauty of my new system is that we're out at the park most of the day, so it allows me to stop and take a break and rethink my approach. Tumbleweed and I had started out with obstacles again, and I found him completely shutting down on me. Like, these were fun the first time, but enough is enough.

We went back to the trailer, and he ate his hay while I ate my lunch. I started to think, Okay, what's next then? I decided that part 2 of the day would be working him in the round pen to see if he had any frustration stored up, and to see if I could move his feet and get a connection. All of that went well, and I had his attention, so back we went to take another break at the trailer. 

It seemed the next likely step would be to ride him in the round pen. I saddled him up, and off we went. All was well in the round pen. The big empty arena seemed to be calling our name, and off we went to the big arena. After riding in both round pen and arena, we took another break, and my husband brought his work down to the park to join me.



At that point, I thought, Well, hell, why not take him out on the trail and over the obstacles in saddle, since he's doing so good?


We rode through trees, up and down the nearby trails, and then over the obstacles. Tumbleweed was a rock star.

By the end of the day, we had progressed from frustration and shutting down to, YOU DID AWESOME, TWEED! (kiss, kiss, hug, hug, kiss, kiss--happy boy.) I'm so thankful we corrected, because he does not need to be a frustrated 3 year old--he needs to build confidence--and LOTS of it. If I had gone down there and stopped at the first hour, we wouldn't have had the breakthrough. I wouldn't have figured out what Tumbleweed was trying to say to me. Four and half hours together gave us what we needed, and it increased my understanding of him.

Based upon everything I saw today, I think we are ready for a long ride this Sunday.

6 comments:

  1. I think that , like kids, they get bored with the repetition of something they do well and like to move on to the next thing to keep them mentally engaged. I find this even with the weanlings. Youngsters like a challenge!

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    1. Yep, that is exactly what he taught me yesterday. He was bored and he shut down his try. Luckily, he opened back up again, and really enjoyed riding out.

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  2. I have to be careful with Carmen and our groundwork. She can become bored (or at least she looks bored), checks out. She's very obedient but it's clear that she's not engaged. I have to find a question she thinks is worth asking.
    I'm loving this work you are doing,

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    1. I’m glad you said that. I was kind of comparing him to Carmen at times because I remember how well she did over the see saw bridge. I’m happy to know you have experienced this type of shutdown, too. As I was riding Tweed today, I realized that he’s happier when I’m in the saddle. Maybe I’m different up there, too, because I don’t want to get bucked off. 🤣 I’m a little less pushy, and a lot more humble.

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  3. You & Tweed just keep progressing ~ your own way. Ohhh the trails you will travel together. SO happy for you!!

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    1. We’re getting there! I’m benefiting from his solid foundation, which is why I sent him to training. I wanted his early exposure to be rock solid, and it was. I’ll continue to find my way with him, and then I’ll take him back next spring for his last, long training block. He is a super calm horse, so I think we will have a wonderful future. ❤️ I love him.

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